Has anyone ever written anything for you?

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Funny how one thing leads to another.

I was out doing errands this morning when a Stevie Nicks song came on the radio. I didn’t get a chance to hear all of it, so I marked my mental “to do” list to go home and to look up the song so that I could see if I wanted to learn how to play it.

I never made it to  the song on the radio because the title of another one of her songs caught my eye, one I’d never before heard—“Has Anyone Ever Written Anything for You.”

One of the verses goes like this:

“Has anyone ever given anything to you
In your darkest hours
Did you ever give it back
Well, I have
I have given that to you
If it’s all I ever do
This is your song”

The song isn’t written in what I call a standard format, but it ends with these lines:

“So, if not for me, then
Do it for yourself
If not for me then
Do it for the world”

Of course, I looked up the lyrics and listened to the song. I could barely breathe as the song was so hauntingly beautiful. And, as I always do whenever I hear a song that moves me, I researched it. I can’t verify the facts because I haven’t talked to Stevie herself, but supposedly the liner notes from her TimeSpace explains her inspiration :

Stevie had just finished a gig and then walked into a party at the hotel where she was staying. She saw this guy from across the room and immediately fell in love (something she does not / did not believe possible):

No, it wasn’t Lindsey Buckingham. It was Joe Walsh.

He held out his arms to her, and she walked right into them. Two days later he took her for drive in the mountains of Colorado to a “magical park” where he used to take his little girl. Joe had a special connection with his daughter, a connection that only a parent understands, a connection that can only be experienced, not transformed into words on paper. I suppose Joe felt totally vulnerable and REAL around her because she was so pure, so innocent. Her only complaint in life was that she was too little to reach the water fountain in the park.

This story is sad because this sweet little being he loved so much, the one he could truly connect with, died. I don’t know how. Joe’s heart must have ached for her. In dealing with his grief, he built a fountain for her and all the others too little to reach “it.” And Joe wrote a song for her, titled “Song for Emma.” Here are a few of the words:

“There’s a feeling I get
When I look to the sky
As if someone is watching
Someone hears every word

We are filled with regrets
It was such a short time
But we told Him we loved you
Hoping somehow He heard
We hoped He heard”

As the story goes, Stevie was so moved by what Joe told her on their drive and during the visit to the park that she wrote the song “Has Anyone Ever Written Anything for You” for Joe.

And for this reason, I feel a connection with Joe Walsh and Stevie Nicks. We’re all seeking relief, love, and answers. We look in different places, but we all look. You look. The person in line with you at the grocery story is looking. It doesn’t matter what sins or troubles he or she wears. The person is looking, seeking, needing.

I am a writer of songs. I know that what I write is for myself, not for a commercial market. Writing helps me digest life experiences and gives them meaning in my world.

I am a collector. I don’t collect fine things that cost a lot of money. I collect things that remind me of people and the experiences I’ve encountered.

Today’s journey through song was quite serendipitous for me. Only by chance, or better yet, God’s design, did everything line up at just the right time, just the right moment, so that I would do the research, hear the song, discover the meaning, and remember, the wonderful experience I had talking with Joe Walsh about one of his songs he wrote—inspired by his music hero, Jimi Hendrix.

Isn’t it amazing how we’re all connected in one way or another? The experiences. The songs. The journeys. The inspiration. The meaning our experiences bring to our lives.

There is dire conflict in the media today, such a clash between religion and beliefs and tolerance and intolerance.

God created each one of us and gave us the freedom to choose. We can’t force people to love us, and who would want a relationship with someone forced to love us? Do we expect God to want anything less?

Just because people don’t love us doesn’t mean we don’t love them. Right? You can’t stop love. God still loves people who don’t love Him. So why do we spend all of our time yakking about the sins of somebody else when we’ve got enough troubles of our own? Is God not big enough to handle the situation? He knows why they (we) do what they (we) do.

But what do I know?

God created each one of us, and each one of us has a purpose. We choose our own destiny. But God’s plan is always fulfilled. He orchestrates all lives so beautifully that a grand purpose is accomplished. I can’t explain it. I can’t comprehend it. But I can feel it. And write about it—in a blog , in a book, or in a song.

So thank you, God, that I was able to connect with a couple of human beings through song this morning. We may not think the same way, we may not share the same talent, we may not share the same beliefs, but I know You are pretty proud of them and of me too even when we break Your heart.

10 thoughts on “Has anyone ever written anything for you?

  1. Thank you, Dennis. I’m kind of excited about that one. I actually came up with the lyrics on the muddy river banks of the Mississippi. It was cool to actually perform it live. And survive. LOL!

  2. I used to write papers for people in college (“Has anyone ever written anything for you?”,… not quite the same meaning, but I did make a little chunk of change!). 😉

    I think perhaps everyone has a song. Most are just too busy hiding from life to recognize the melody. I’ve written a couple of songs. I write best when it is spontaneous — no thought, just put it on paper when it enters my head. Thus, the songs I wrote were WAY to personal after I had a chance to review/critique them.

    Point being… we are the truest form of ourselves when we are sincere and unfiltered. I don’t reckon anyone has ever written anything for me (cept’n for your blog!), but if they should, I hope there’s a bit of sarcasm and sauciness mixed in with the selected adjectives.
    I’m a wee bit more mischievous than most realize.

    When did you perform??? I woulda come!!!

    • LOL! Harmony House had a showcase at 41 South. It was a great night. And, yes, we did a couple of my songs with a full band.

      We were invited back, so I’ll tell you about the next one coming up. 🙂

  3. I can think of a few good stories that I’ve written for people. They didn’t think their stories were amazing, but I was sure taken aback when I talked to them. Those few stories give me insight unlike anything else. I just have to wonder how they do these things, how they travel so far. And, they brush the journey off like it was no big deal. It’s intriguing.

    I don’t think I’ve had anything written for me. Not really. Sure I’ve had dozens of golf stories, but I don’t count those. Golf is just a part of me. Not the whole picture but a nice, good-sized chunk. But, if I was asked about more than just golf, I think people would see me differently. Or at least that’s my hope. 🙂 I say little, but I learn much from the lives around me and experiences that come along the road.

    • You are AMAZING at golf, but I know you want to be known more than just a golf player. You have such a sweet spirit, a sharp wit, and such a creative imagination. I think the hardest thing any of us is able to do is to really open up to people. Whenever we are vulnerable, we let people see the parts of us that trigger a change in themselves. If we all walk around like robots or zombies afraid to be “real,” we don’t make changes in lives. Does any of that make sense? I have been so blessed to see another side of you, and I know many of those fun, wonderful, loving qualities others haven’t seen yet. I could write about you. 🙂 And it would all be very good.

    • It’s easy to think of celebrities as non-human. They are elevated, but they feel the same emotions we do. I guess that’s what fascinates me. I always wonder, “Why them?”

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